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sexual activity among cohabiting couples is "routine sex." Sex can be very emotional, but necessarily lack the passion that is felt in the first encounters with a new person. Couples who live together are now off by the fires of the early days and a bit embarrassed to attend a series of sex a bit bland. This has nothing to do with the love that can be developed further and be more intense than it was in the beginning. It is only over time and what was new and it is not and if you add up the routines of work, the children and keeping house, no romantic or sexual passion to resist such pressure and such familiarity. That's where the appearance and maintenance of fantasies can be an interesting way to recover eroticism. What are the fantasies?
Sexual fantasies are products of the imagination that we can all create. From childhood on, most people have sexual fantasies that serve a variety of functions and can raise a wide range of reactions. Some are pleasant and exciting while others may be disconcerting and even uncomfortable. An essential function of fantasy in adolescence is to serve as a test, be doing sexual activities that have not yet elapsed, hence the teenager spends a long time imagining different erotic scenes with characters of fiction or known someone who finds it difficult to approach.

use adult sexual imagination is varied. It is often used to induce or enhance sexual arousal, which can happen on its own when there is no partner available but it is commonly used during sexual activity with someone. Others use it to increase excitement and make the current situation in a more passionate. Fantasizing may increase both the physiological and psychological aspects of sexual response, in many ways: counteracting boredom, focusing the thoughts and feelings (remove distractions or pressure) improving our self-image, etc.

sexual fantasies also promote a safe environment to let go of the imagination and strongly emerging sexual feelings. Are safe because they are private and fictional: Privacy ensures that fantasies will not be discovered while the appearance of fantasies invented frees us of responsibility and we can play with them. And because we're the director of the scene, we can adjourn abruptly if we do not like them or change the course. Fantasized scenes, but are only excursions of the mind, help to find excitement, adventure, confidence and pleasure. Thus
recreating scenes that happened and put up other things that but we do want, because we do not dare, or because we are scared, or because they simply want to remain as fantasies. Some people have them more developed and others not.
general appears that men fantasize more than us, but women also fantasize J. Money, an expert on sexuality, says that we all develop a "love map," a mental map that has the characteristics of love and sexual and emotional activities that we are more erotic. That map is like a fingerprint sexual personality of each one of us, things that excite us sexually is unique if it is true that many of them share with other women and The same happens to men. Sexual fantasies of love complete map add tracks that are missing but, above all "entertain the head," allow us to focus on the pleasurable sensations, uncensored and increasing the possibility of erotic arousal. Fantasy and sexual desire can sometimes occur together and be the motor that turns the sexual scene. But he has also found that people with low sexual desire, sexual fantasies has little benefit and often using and building a positive fantasies.